Although two main characters of the book of Ruth are Ruth and Boaz, in this chapter, I gave a little bit more focus on Naomi and the important role that she played as a connector in this chapter.
Summary of Ruth 3
At the end of the barley harvest period, wanting to provide a safe family for Ruth, Naomi gave a specific instruction for Ruth to go see Boaz at the threshing floor. Ruth obeyed and went down.
At the threshing floor, Ruth waited until Boaz had finished eating and drinking and let his heart merry. After he went to lie down, Ruth approached him quietly and uncovered his feet and lay down. In the middle of the night, Boaz was startled by the unexpected presence of Ruth. Ruth asked Boaz to redeem her and Naomi. Boaz praised Ruth for showing kindness and informed her that there was a closer relative, who was first in line to redeem. Boaz told Ruth that he would redeem Ruth and Naomi if the closer relative refused to do so.
Ruth went back to Noami and told everything that had happened. Namoi was certain that Boaz wouldn’t rest until the matter had settled.
Naomi the Connector
Naomi played a crucial role in connecting Ruth with Boaz in this chapter. The time gap between chapter 2, the beginning of the harvest period, and chapter 3, the end of the harvest period, was two to three months. During this time, Ruth did what she did the best by diligently gleaning. Boaz did what he did best by providing a generous opportunity for people like Ruth to glean. This day-to-day happenings lasted for two to three months.
Then came Naomi, who was instrumental in connecting Ruth with Boaz. Naomi must have seen and heard the character of Boaz. Naomi also must have sensed how Ruth thought of Boaz. Perhaps, noticing the opportunity and the hesitancy from both Ruth and Boaz, Naomi took the initiative to build the first step for them to be connected as a potentially redeemer-redeemed pair. Naomi gave an instruction to Ruth to anoint herself and change to her best clothes (to signify that she was no longer a grieving widow) and go down to the threshing floor where Boaz would be threshing harvested grains (Ruth 3:3-4). In fact, Naomi was instructing Ruth to propose to Boaz as a redeemer-redeemed pair. Without Naomi’s intervention and active role as a connector, a private meeting between Ruth and Boaz might not have happened.
Ruth the Risk Taker
Ruth obeyed Naomi by following her instruction (Ruth 3:5). She took a great risk by going to the threshing floor, which was typically located outside the village. Walking to the threshing floor alone and staying there until late night as a woman can be a risky venture. Plus, this was during the times of Judges, when the level of the fear of God was low society-wide. Regardless, Ruth obeyed and took this risk to have a private encounter with Boaz.
Boaz’s Reaction: Second Kindness > First Kindness
After drinking and eating, Boaz was merry and lay down. In the middle of the night, he was startled to find out that a woman was at his feet. It was Ruth. Ruth asked Boaz to spread his garment over her as he was a close relative, a redeemer (Ruth 3:9). Notice the word, “garment”, is the same word that denotes the wing of the God of Israel (Ruth 2:12 May the Lord reward your work, and may your wages be full from the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge). This request to redeem her and Naomi’s family was practically a marriage proposal. This can be a risky situation because Ruth can be rejected and spurned by Boaz. .
In response, however, Boaz praised Ruth that her second kindness was greater than her first (Ruth 3:10). What does this mean? Ruth’s first kindness was leaving the land of Moab for Bethlehem to provide for Naomi. Ruth’s second kindness was to the deceased Elimelech, whose name would be preserved by Ruth getting married to Boaz. Ruth could have sought a young man for marriage for herself (which is not necessarily bad). For this reason, Boaz complimented her.
Suspense with Great Expectation
Boaz told Ruth that he would be glad to redeem her and Noami. However, he stated that there was a closer relative than him. Boaz stated he would redeem Ruth if the closer relative would not redeem. After this conversation, Ruth waited until dawn and went back to Naomi.
That day must have been a sleepless day for both Noami and Ruth. Naomi knew that Boaz would not rest until he had settled the matter that day. In the next 24 hours, their status would change: they would be redeemed by either the closest relative, whose name was unknown, or Boaz. It must have been an exciting, anxious, sleepless night and day for both.
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